Episode 146 - Komunikasi Kasar, Penurunan Semangat Akhir Tahun, Ayo Main Game, Cape Town Live

1위@phaphamajameson88133 hari yang lalu

I cant speak for Thali but I think what she wanted to articulate is that it comes across as dismissive. Not necessarily harsh cause you werent rude/shouting, qha she shared a feeling and the immediate response was dismissing it by stating that you've done something similar before and it was successful. From Ta Mzu's perspective, he is motivating you by reminding you of all the times you've done this before but that wasn't what the moment needed. You just wanted to share emotions and have some room be held for that emotion. Also by immediately shutting down the 'nervous' chat, it makes it feel like the emotion is wrong to feel.번역 보기

2위@seavair3 hari yang lalu

Its always so interesting watching a feeler and a thinker trying to bring each other into their worlds - e.g., uZuko literally & genuinely yearns a deeper connection with sis T yet he hates using his emotions and feelings, the very same fabric that sis T primarily uses to navigate her world. T-Money now has to be logical (this is energy consuming the same way, seating and feeling emotions is for uZuko) about her emotions & feelings , in order to protect herself & uZuko, from sharing her internal world. Tar Mzu: episode 142 , timestamp 38:30. Most of your answers, from you, are there😂. For sis-T: he did let us know he's trying to do something about his feeling situation. Maybe come up with a safe word, that when it's uttered , it will instantly remind uMzubhela that at this current moment, you're running away mtshana from feeling and seating in an emotion. My departing words: <<make friends with emotions, because they will not go away, they are your ally and they will destroy you if left on their own>>. Adapted from a quote in a book I once read😂 Yours truly, a fellow thinker !😂번역 보기

3위@KarenBogatsu-w6r3 hari yang lalu

I think sis Thali is saying ubhuti doesn't acknowledge her emotions sometimes which comes off as harsh or dismissive and all she wants is an ear and acknowledgement in that moment.번역 보기